Are you feeling lost, like you don’t know how to parent your child?
Maybe you're waking up in the morning with a pit in your stomach, dreading another day of battling it out?
Why isn’t it possible simply to get them to do the normal things - getting dressed, into the car - without resistance, threats, or shouting?
Maybe you avoid going out with your child because you’re anxious about how they’ll react - worried they’ll run off or embarrass you with their behaviour.
Now, imagine if time with your children was actually enjoyable, because they’re listening to you and responding positively.
Imagine if your child came to you with anything, because they know it’s safe to share their feelings with you, so that your family becomes a place where everyone can be themselves and you solve problems by talking them through.
Imagine the whole family thriving, because relaxed and happy is the new normal.
So, what is getting in the way?
The problem here is not that you aren't cut out to be a parent.
It isn’t that you shouldn’t have had children, or that you shouldn’t have had your second child.
I promise you, it isn’t any of the things you have been telling yourself.
It’s rather that there’s a missing piece.
This missing piece is the parenting skills you were never taught, to create the loving, harmonious family you really want.
Right now you may think you should know how to handle your own child, especailly if you’ve got knowledge of the field, as a psychotherapist or a teacher.
But I work with many experts who, despite all the theory they have, struggle to make this work with their own children.
The reason for struggle is the same for any parent:
No-one has ever actually showed you how to parent effectively with kindness.
So that’s why I teach you the power of radical love, because this helps your child connect with you - and feel seen, heard, loved and understood.
This connection is the cornerstone of a happy family: when your child feels it, everything changes:
Not only is your child happier than ever before, but also, as if by magic, they become more reasonable and responsive.
You may feel all this out of reach right now, but I assure you that you can get there.
That’s exactly what my Happy Child Happy Family 3 month 1-to-1 mentoring package helps you achieve.
Happy Child Happy Family 1-to-1 Mentoring Package
In this 3 month package, we will step through everything you need to know to create that deep, lasting connection with your child, so that you can have the relaxed family life you want.
Here’s what will change for you:
- You’ll have at your finger tips the effective, radically loving tools you need to solve behaviour challenges gracefully, so that you can avoid the power struggles and instead solve conflicts by having helpful conversations with your child;
- You'll be becoming the loving and effective leader your family needs, who is kind but firm, and in control, without being controlling;
- You’ll be using new, enjoyable ways of bringing them to listen and do things that make everything so much easier, so that you never have to use threats, bribery, reward charts or punishments again.
- You'll no longer feel that parenting is a chore, because you're enjoying your children, worrying less and having more fun.
- You'll be feeling a deep connection with your children and looking towards the teenage years with confidence.
When you no longer have to spend sleepless nights feeling guilty, or wondering how to help your child be less angry or less anxious, a whole different family life opens up.
A family life where:
- You enjoy getting your child up and off to school/nursery.
- You look forward to happy days out with the family.
- Evenings are times to do fun things for yourself or spend time with your partner - not talking about how things went with the children that day.
"We are now on a different trajectory. I have so much more energy after working with you; my son is happier; I am happier; my husband is happier. You can’t put a price on the joy you can get from working with you.
I would pay it many times over to be where I am today. I am very very grateful to you. And I hope than any parents who are struggling or stressed out find their way to you”
A-Jin Kim, Toronto
"Before I met Oona I was in big knots about my children’s behaviour. Now I am so much more relaxed. Without Oona I could have spent 20 years getting to this place connection with them.
It’s been amazing.
Life with the children is unrecognisable to how it was when Oona appeared."
Harriet Hancock, Stroud, UK.
So how does it work?
When you sign up for my Happy Child Happy Family package, here’s what you get:
- 3 months of personal handholding for you - or for you and your partner. Phew - no more scouring the internet for answers, clutching at straws. Instead, you know what to do and you’re doing it!
- 6 x 1 hour calls with me per Zoom video: This is when you’ll have one lightbulb moment after another around what’s needed to turn your family into a happy positive place to be. In particular, you get scripts, designed for you and your child, so you can have effective conversations with them, that feel so natural and easy.
- 6 recorded half-hour trainings. These give you additional information to support you in implementing the radically loving strategies and mindset we’ll be discussing on our calls.
- Email check-ins with me between sessions. For 3 whole months I am there for you, in your corner, providing the guidance you need and so if you have a question in-between sessions, you are welcome to email me and I will point you in the right direction.
If you're ready to change your family life forever and discover how to create that happy home you've always wanted, then I invite you to apply for a Happier Way Forward Session with me.
On this no-charge, no-obligation call. we will discover what's getting in the way for you and your family and what is the best next step to support you to create the family life you want.
Click on the pink button below to book a complimentary Happier Way Forward Session with me:
“I’ve achieved so much more than I was ever anticipating. You’ve helped me find words - when I was stuck and didn’t know what to say. It’s such a relief that things don’t escalate any more because I now know how to communicate things in a way my toddler understands and accepts. I’m thrilled - and so grateful that I took that first step of booking a call.”
Kathryn, Exeter, Devon, UK
1) Is it worth working on my parenting if my partner isn’t interested in making changes and has a more traditional approach to parenting than I do?
I have consistently found that it only takes one parent to master the skill of parenting with connection and kindness, to get the whole family feeling lighter and happier, and enjoying time together like never before.
2) I have a lot on my plate right now. Should I wait to speak with you until I have more space in my life?
In my experience, parents are always busy and families always have a lot on their plate.
The question is: is this something you want to sort out now?
With the tools and techniques I share in this programme, you'll discover and create more time and space in your life.
3) I am concerned I won't be able to afford this.
Not a problem.
I have different packages to cater to different budgets.
The purpose of the Happier Way Forward Session is to work out which package would suit you best.
4) How do I know this is going to work for me?
My approach consists of a series of simple steps that consistently get excellent results with children.
I can’t wave a magic wand for you - you need to do the work. But if you implement the steps, you will see your children become more reasonable, kinder and calmer.
If you've done other courses and read all the books, but not got the results, you may be surprised at just how effective our work will be.
My programme achieves results across the board.
And to support that fact, I also offer a Satisfaction Guarantee:
If, after working together for one month, you have attended all our sessions and implemented all the steps, and you are not 100% satisfied, I guarantee I will give you a full refund of any payments you’ve made up to that point.
I offer this guarantee because I am 100% confident about the effectiveness of my approach, and I want you to feel an equal level of confidence that you're investing your time and money wisely.