Hi, I’m 0ona!
And I support thousands of mums in the UK and worldwide to raise children who are truly happy and naturally well behaved, with my radically loving approach.
If you’ve landed here, it’s probably because you’re looking for a solution to your child’s difficult behaviour.
This could be tantrums, upsets and anxiety or fighting with siblings. Maybe it’s impossible to get them to do as you ask - and they might even hit out at you too.
The very the last thing you wanted was to be the kind of parent who shouts at your children – but that’s exactly what you find yourself doing, in exasperation when nothing else seems to work.
And then comes the guilt, the feeling you are failing them, followed by the worry about their future, if you can’t learn how to calm them down.
You know that their future life as happy, healthy adults is in your hands, yet you find their behaviour so challenging that you can’t seem to get it together.
You love them deeply of course, and you just want them to be happy but the endless struggle is wearing you down, maybe even taking a toll on your relationship.
I want you to know that this most definitely isn’t your fault.
I know exactly how you feel.
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I went through similar challenges with my son. There were times when I had no idea how to get him to behave, like when he whacked me with his building planks and I went ballistic and threw them out of the back door. Normally I’m a calm and kind person! I was wracked with guilt about the damage I was doing to him.
If you’re anything like me you just want a normal life, where your children are nice and well behaved, and you can be happy - without all the drama.
You want to feel confident that you’re being a great mum so you no longer compare yourself to all the other mums who seem to “have it all together”. Most of all you want to know that you are giving your kids what they need now, so they’ll grow into healthy, happy adults.
I want you to know you’re in the right place.
What you’re experiencing is surprisingly common - so don’t worry. You CAN reach your dream of a happy family life. I know because I did. You just need to know the steps to take - the steps that will dramatically improve your children’s behaviour.
As a result of my own parenting experience I became a pioneer of what I now call a radically loving approach to parenting. I can show you how to change what you’re doing, so you won’t need to shout, bribe, force, count to 3, threaten or punish any more at all.
With the help of my 6 Wise Parenting Powers, you’ll learn new ways to run your family - more loving ways, that feel good for you and feel good for your kids.
- nipping tantrums in the bud;
- effortlessly getting your children to listen and do what you ask;
- bringing fights to an end;
- quickly and calmly soothing upsets;
- and breathing a big sigh of relief, confident that your children are happy and well-behaved!
“When I found Oona, I was miserable, desperate - and anxious about my 5 year old’s future. I felt out of touch with him, like I was losing control.
With Oona’s non-judgemental guidance, I learnt how to set healthy boundaries while staying open and flexible and creating a loving, caring atmosphere at home. As a result, I feel quite different these days, much happier and more importantly for me, my son is much happier and his behaviour is much better too!
For me, Oona’s brilliant personalised advice and friendly attitude have been priceless!”
Tanya Stankeva, Peterborough, UK
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